It seems to me that co-evolving the culture of your friendship with another friend, or even life partner, is one of the greatest joys in life. When you commit to each other and call each other to higher standards over the years with respect and compassion you have something of enduring and rare value. Ditching a friend who stumbles misses that chance, but if you're hanging out with friends who keep jumping back into the same holes, or letting you do the same, then yes, maybe it's time to move on.
It seems to me that co-evolving the culture of your friendship with another friend, or even life partner, is one of the greatest joys in life. When you commit to each other and call each other to higher standards over the years with respect and compassion you have something of enduring and rare value. Ditching a friend who stumbles misses that chance, but if you're hanging out with friends who keep jumping back into the same holes, or letting you do the same, then yes, maybe it's time to move on.
Yes, I think this comment captures my points extremely well
Transitioning from the drinking buddies to the ones who actually share hobbies or passions with you... it's tough but but so worth it
It’s magical when the transition isn’t really one at all, when it’s the same person. And you both start making better decisions in general
Consider me jealous Jeff